trying2win
02-04-2004, 04:43 AM
"Life is very short and there's no time
for fussing and fighting, my friend" (lyrics from a Beatles song)
--PA, you're doing the best you can. Thank you for your efforts. You're right, you can't please everyone. Just like the old cliche,
it seems sometimes you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.
--I think someone mentioned something awhile back, that most members that post here are pretty decent except for when there are some heated topics about politics. Some people can sure quickly change from being a Dr. Jekyll to a Mr. Hyde, when it comes to some political discussions. That's why I prefer not to read those political threads.
--There seems to be three groups of people at this PA site:
1. A few super nice people that we really like. They're personable, they go the extra mile to help you with some handicapping topics with their posts, P.M.'s and e-mails. Some of their posts are brilliant and thought-provoking. Some of these members have a great sense of humor too. Just genuinely nice people that really stand out in a crowd.
2. This second group I think, comprises most of the members here. Decent folk who like playing the races, contribute a post once in awhile. Nothing extraordinary, but they seem to be
personable which is a bonus.
3. This is the unenlightened group of people that have irritating traits like:
--Consistently writing drivel at this site (if you don't know what "drivel" means, look it up at www.dictionary.com)
--Resort to name-calling when someone criticizes one of their posts etc. Nothing wrong with disagreeing on some things, but you can disagree without being disagreeable. Some members need to read Dale Carnegie's great book "How to Win Friends and Influence People".
--Posting unsubstantiated claims of alleged race fixing etc.
--Posting gobbledygook columns of horse racing topics of one sort or another, and adamantly arguing they're "right" in their opinions and that everybody else is wrong. Which reminds me of that question from Dr. Gerald Jampolsky..."Would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy?". Or another way I think Dr. Jampolsky could have said it...Would you rather be right, or would you rather have peace of mind?
--Members bragging about their ROI's with an air of superiority.
Nothing wrong with telling us about some of your recent big winners or your positive ROI numbers (I'm happy for you in that regard) but, could some members please tell us about your big-priced winners or positive ROI's in a less exalted way. Hint...could you be more humble about it?
--Being generally negative about too many things.
There's some irony involved with being a PA member too. I've had an attitude change toward some of the people I had prevously
thought had some irritating traits. To my surprise, some of these members I was critical of, were quite willing to help me with various topics I needed some advice on. See, I make mistakes too. Yes, I have my faults. One of them is being too judgmental at times.
I don't blame PA, if he wants to cancel membership privileges for some members. That's something we should remember...i.e. this is a privilege to be a member here, not a right.
I quit posting here for quite awhile last year, then resumed when I noticed that a lot of the trouble makers had gone away. Things went fine for quite awhile, but it seems things are starting to slip somewhat again with air of negativity on some issues.
So, let's help PA all we can. Let's contribute positive things to this site. Let's help one another with some advice etc. (you don't have to give away your trade secrets for winning at the races). Let's post interesting things here. Let's have a few laughs. Let's
make this site a place where we look forward to visiting on a regular basis once again. What do you say?
Thanks,
T2W
for fussing and fighting, my friend" (lyrics from a Beatles song)
--PA, you're doing the best you can. Thank you for your efforts. You're right, you can't please everyone. Just like the old cliche,
it seems sometimes you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.
--I think someone mentioned something awhile back, that most members that post here are pretty decent except for when there are some heated topics about politics. Some people can sure quickly change from being a Dr. Jekyll to a Mr. Hyde, when it comes to some political discussions. That's why I prefer not to read those political threads.
--There seems to be three groups of people at this PA site:
1. A few super nice people that we really like. They're personable, they go the extra mile to help you with some handicapping topics with their posts, P.M.'s and e-mails. Some of their posts are brilliant and thought-provoking. Some of these members have a great sense of humor too. Just genuinely nice people that really stand out in a crowd.
2. This second group I think, comprises most of the members here. Decent folk who like playing the races, contribute a post once in awhile. Nothing extraordinary, but they seem to be
personable which is a bonus.
3. This is the unenlightened group of people that have irritating traits like:
--Consistently writing drivel at this site (if you don't know what "drivel" means, look it up at www.dictionary.com)
--Resort to name-calling when someone criticizes one of their posts etc. Nothing wrong with disagreeing on some things, but you can disagree without being disagreeable. Some members need to read Dale Carnegie's great book "How to Win Friends and Influence People".
--Posting unsubstantiated claims of alleged race fixing etc.
--Posting gobbledygook columns of horse racing topics of one sort or another, and adamantly arguing they're "right" in their opinions and that everybody else is wrong. Which reminds me of that question from Dr. Gerald Jampolsky..."Would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy?". Or another way I think Dr. Jampolsky could have said it...Would you rather be right, or would you rather have peace of mind?
--Members bragging about their ROI's with an air of superiority.
Nothing wrong with telling us about some of your recent big winners or your positive ROI numbers (I'm happy for you in that regard) but, could some members please tell us about your big-priced winners or positive ROI's in a less exalted way. Hint...could you be more humble about it?
--Being generally negative about too many things.
There's some irony involved with being a PA member too. I've had an attitude change toward some of the people I had prevously
thought had some irritating traits. To my surprise, some of these members I was critical of, were quite willing to help me with various topics I needed some advice on. See, I make mistakes too. Yes, I have my faults. One of them is being too judgmental at times.
I don't blame PA, if he wants to cancel membership privileges for some members. That's something we should remember...i.e. this is a privilege to be a member here, not a right.
I quit posting here for quite awhile last year, then resumed when I noticed that a lot of the trouble makers had gone away. Things went fine for quite awhile, but it seems things are starting to slip somewhat again with air of negativity on some issues.
So, let's help PA all we can. Let's contribute positive things to this site. Let's help one another with some advice etc. (you don't have to give away your trade secrets for winning at the races). Let's post interesting things here. Let's have a few laughs. Let's
make this site a place where we look forward to visiting on a regular basis once again. What do you say?
Thanks,
T2W